Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I frequently get questions regarding how to attract women, or the direction to go to attract women.
A typical concern that guys have is how to avoid making those significant mistakes on the first date that prevents ever getting a second date or attaining a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I'm going to discuss a number of them here.
Well, there are several mistakes a man can make. I want to summarize the most typical ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Speaking about themselves excessively. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not creating future. (A relationship depends upon future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a good catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that is not going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't serious about her and does not listen to what she wants to say. A bad relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they should be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it does not work exactly that way. You should be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They are both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering the other.
If you do not know what We are discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is serious about you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all kinds of other interesting factors.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls can be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls love to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. A source of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.
That's all we have room to talk about here, but you may get more data on the other five errors at Dating To Relating.
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